How can I become better in bed? What are the real secrets to pleasing my partner between the sheets? Is there any way to tell if I’m doing something wrong WITHOUT needing to ask?
And what about all of those countless blog posts, articles and product pitches that PROMISE to make me a super hero in the sack?
Do they work?
ARE there actually any secret strategies for sensational sex that a woman WANTS me to know, and if there is, how do I discover them?
Any of these questions sound familiar? If they do, you are not alone.
If you are anything like the thousands of men who enjoy our articles and blog posts each and every day, the truth is… your ARE concerned about your skill in the sack.
But don’t worry… so TOO is she! Believe it or not, women are equally as self conscious, and often just as insecure about what pleases a man, as you are about giving her the sex of a lifetime as well. This is especially important if you’re a little bit serious and WANT the relationship to last.
Here are a few very simple do’s and “don’t do’s” for optimal sex from a woman’s perspective.
The best part? Even if you don’t feel 100% confident in giving her what she wants, the likelihood is, if you follow the simple road map below, you’ll have a very happy woman on your hands anyway!
DO spend at least TWICE as much time on foreplay, as you do on intercourse. Sexual statistics, and surveys show that the average woman needs about 3 times MORE sexual stimulation than a man to climax. If you double the amount of time your focus on foreplay before actual sex, the likelihood of her being able to orgasm DURING sex goes up exponentially.
Do work on improving your stamina and staying power if you are concerned about her ability to orgasm. Again, the BIGGEST complaint women have about intercourse? It ends too quickly! Most men last 5 minutes or less during actual sex, and unfortunately, the way our bodies are built, a woman simply can’t usually achieve climax in that short of a time, whereas men, obviously can.
DON’T assume your current girl likes the same things as your previous partner did. Why? Because unless you ask, you have no idea what her sexual sensitivities may be, or even what taboos may turn her totally OFF! Remember, the same things may have been totally cool with someone else may not be cool with her.
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